Yesterday finally I managed to locate my long lost friend in the facebook. Actually she was my girlfriend when I was still in my late teens in the late 80s. Somehow we drifted apart for a while and lost touch. though we did not break off officially. Over the years I had wanted to find out how is she. But I had lost her contact number. Also at that time, we were not in the internet age and there is no facebook. So it was hard to find somebody once you have lost contact.
I had found out that she had asked somebody to pass me a letter asking me to wait at the Orchard MRT. But I did not go as I did not receive that letter. So all these years she had thought I was heartless. I know I had broken her heart.
Imagine those years we have to resort to letter writing to communicate. If at that time if handphones were invented, she could have smsed me instead of giving me a letter through her friend.
Well life has to move on. I am happy that she is no longer angry with me and we are now able to sms each other. I am now a divorcee and I am glad that she is happily married with 2 children. I guess it was a blessing in disguise that we are not together as she has found somebody better than me.
Therefore I urge all those who are heart broken because of failed relationships or some heartless creatures, do not despair as that someone better will come along your way.
If you love somebody, set him or her free if she or he does not love you anymore. Afterall you deserve somebody who loves you.
Do not break other's hearts if not retributions will come your way. I am a good example. At 41, my miss right is still somewhere out there and I will probably never be able to find her till i bite the dust.
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